This troper is pretty sure he is this for every occasion. Besides his Heterosexual Life Partner, the people hes hang around tend to ignore whatever he says. Happens especially during school group projects, where his group members usually take the entire project without asking what he want to do. If he wants to do something, he's usually to scared to ask. If he does have any input, again, it is immediately shot down. He is a
shy, quiet loner, so being TheLoad is either because of his demeaner, or the cause of it.