I grew up in a town with less than 20,000 people in it, and the town where my college is is even smaller. And my college has only got 2,000 people in it. But the town where I actually live is, in my opinion, pretty big. It's got a few malls, a bus system, a large and well-known university, a few big apartment complexes, dozens and dozens of restaurants, etc. Right now, I'm spending six weeks in Santiago, Chile (the longest amount of time I've ever spent in a big city), and taking Spanish classes. Most of my classmates are from São Paulo, the world's seventh-largest city by population, and while I'm constantly gawping at how huge the buildings and markets are and how many people there are and how crowded the subways are and so on, they keep talking about how everything is bigger where they come from. I thought that was
my job as the token American! But the trope doesn't really completely apply; the city people I've met are a lot more friendly and helpful than the people I'm used to back home.