CooldownHug
#24755
This troper requires a hug upon any mind overload. Frustration, rage, and utter despair-if there is no hug, she will probably have a heart attack.
#24757
This tropette has never gotten a cooldown hug from her friends but has given a few to them and then proceeded to crack jokes in attempts to cheer them up.
#24758
This troper was having a breakdown once at school, complete with tears, yelling, and violence, until one brave soul this troper rarely talked to gave her a hug. This troper broke down completely and cried for the rest of the class, now huggee and hugger are [=BFFs=].
#24759
This troper was once over at a friend's house when a huge fight broke out between him and his brother. Much hitting, biting, and snarling ensued. A significant portion of the rest of the afternoon consisted of her repeatedly hugging him and otherwise trying to help him calm down.
#24760
When this troper's brain overloads, usually from rage, a hug is the only way to reset it.
#24761
According to Robert Anton Wilson, Timothy Leary suggested hugging as a treatment for bad trips. (See: Cosmic Trigger)
#24762
This has been used a ''lot'' among this troper's circle of friends -- indeed, the first thing he searches for when he's having some kind of breakdown is a hug from his best friend. Sobbing into her shoulder really helps to depressurize...
#24763
An unusually kind teacher that this troper liked and respected once attempted this after he had beaten three people to their knees for jumping him. this troper was so
far gone that he nearly decked the teacher as well. His fist was an inch from her face before he realized who he was about to punch. He still regrets it, though he's thrown people down flights of stairs without a second's worth of remorse.
#24764
Da_Nuke is usually quite loud when doing school work at the labs. There was class at that time. When he was about to lose it and start yelling, the teacher patted his shoulder. Instant cooldown ensued!
#24765
When this troper is upset, this is the best way to make him feel better. Unfortunately, he's surrounded by people who are the opposite. Now he needs a hug...
#24767
Thanks. This troper feels much better now. *hugs back*
#24768
The one sure way to stop this troper's rage is by hugging her. This will usually result into her melting down into a storm of tears, but she's less likely to punch people that way. Unfortunately, her best friend is not the huggy type. After four years of knowing him, said troper has pounded it into his brain so hard he remembers one out of four times. However, he then goes and tries to fix it, completely ignoring the fact that all she needs is a good cry. Fortunately, her TroubledButCute on-again off-again LoveInterest understands this phenomenon much better, and she also has several close girlfriends, all of whom are more than willing to offer hugs when needed.
#24769
Yeah, we men are idiots like that. I'm much the same, only... being a guy, people assume I ''don't'' want a hug, when in reality, yeah I really freaking do... :T
#24770
here's one for a future date *hugs* in case you need it :)
#24771
Inverted with this Troper, hugs from anyone are generally a BerserkButton for this troper, so trying to do this has the exact opposite effect than intended.
#24772
You're describing me! This troper has a best friend who really has no sense of personal space and loves to give back breaking hugs! She probably only does it to annoy me, but she says, "I can't help it, you're so little!"
#24773
Sounds like my friend. She doesn't seem to get that I dislike being hugged, especially from behind.
#24774
This is generally the rule for me, and my friends know it very well, but I really played the trope straight recently when my professors essentially told me I couldn't continue my study of theater because I "haven't been engaged enough within the theater department." I was exploding, in full Hulk rage mode, screaming about how I've done so much theater work over the past several years and just because it wasn't within the theater department shouldn't mean that all that work is worth jack ''shit'' and--my best friend literally ducks under my flailing arms and hugs me really hard. I dissolved into a mess of tears on her shoulder, but the rage was gone. CrowningMomentOfAwesome ''and''
Heartwarming for her.
#24775
Costantly invoked by this troper. Being hyper, he usually blackmails close girlfriends not to stop his psycho attitude until they hug me. This is mostly because
I am very unlucky with girls, and most people I know even hates to touch me. They make me sad :'(
#24776
People like you need hugs the most. *hugs*
#24778
That is sad. Did you know that if you don't cuddle babies enough they end up very messed up when they grow up?
#24779
This Troper often believes this could work as an anti-Berserk Button for him, but, sadly, by the time anyone has realized this, he's already seeing red, and the only thing that can stop him then is a good kick below the belt. OUCH.
#24780
This troper understands that most people need cooldown hugs once in a while. But she once had a certain male friend that needed about 4 EVERY DAY, or else he would cry and stay angry afterwards. Needless to say, she is no longer friends with this boy.
#24781
He's just desperate for female attention, obviously.
#24782
HEAVILY inverted by this (female) troper, who hates hugs massively.
#24783
This troper suffers from depression, and has brief periods where she's extremely touch-hungry. Unfortunately, due to
certain triggers she has, she has to ''give'' hugs, not receive them. Having people fail to understand this, and plaster her with unwanted touching, serves as a kind of a BerserkButton. However, touching me when I'm crying is not a good idea unless this is an entirely solicited hug.
#24784
This troper usually ends up on Cooldown Hug duty when his roommate is upset and drunk. This has, unfortunately, become a weekly occurrence as of late.
#24785
When you have a case of the flu that comes with chills, sometimes body heat will be the only thing that will make you feel warm.
#24786
So...subversion, then?
#24787
I once let down all my friends on something we had all been planning for ages and royally fucked it up. One of them confronted me, pointed out all my mistakes and what I should've done, and I broke down and blubbered, and she gave me a hug to calm me down, saying that she and everyone else forgave me and that everything would work out. That made me sob harder saying what a cheesy chick flick my life was turning into, and both of us laughed at that.
#24788
Subverted by this troper. Due to his issues, he used to very bothered by seemingly insignificant things (symmetry, germs, physical contact and the like). When things got bad, people would attempt cooldown hugs, only to freak him out even more.
#24789
This troper's father is very good at giving these.
#24790
This troper's close friend is very good at giving these. This troper having PTSD, her skills are very much appreciated. At my worst points, she became almost a LivingEmotionalCrutch, simply because of this talent.
#24791
This troper definitely needs one when RAEEEEGING out...or a chance to punch the inducer of said rage in the face a couple of times, but the hug is preferred for the lack of blood. On the other hand, her friend WILL punch someone trying to give her one of these when angry, as she's not used to this kind of contact.
#24792
Not a good idea to do that to this Troper. If I'm feeling wounded and someone tries to comfort me, my first instinct is to lash out...
#24793
This troper discovered the therapeutic power of hugs when he was hugged by somebody who didn't even know he was depressed. I don't cry as much as I used to, but every time, I would just wish somebody would give me a Cooldown Hug. Nobody ever did.
#24795
Works like a charm with this troper. Once, I got upset at a friend while he was over. Once he realized what he'd done, he came back from his corner of irritation and hugged me. Didn't say a word, but it calmed me down. A year later, same guy upset me along with a ton of stress. Nobody hugged me, not even him (being at school and sick of the dating rumors, he wanted his space) until after school where my best friend/ride home came to me and hugged me.
#24796
Works for
this troper, but only if she knows the person. Always has worked, since she was a little girl.